I love Longwood gardens and try to go at least a couple of times per year. A friend maintains a membership and her interest has gotten me to make the trip more often. Their Christmas display was just amazing (Fire and Ice). We will be going up for the orchid show, of course!
Chanticleer is next on my list of favorite places. Longwood is very traditional design and Chanticleer is much more my style of controlled chaos. Their artisans are amazing. I can go just to look at their benches and railings!
Where ever plants are displayed to sell, I look! Merrifield is worth crossing the bridge!